4th Anniversary

1, 2, 3, and...4.
Ah okay, I should be here too yesterday but I just didn't manage to. I was too busy...playing games lololol.

So today is a special day, and I think I should write here.

4 years ago, me and my girl became a couple. Yeah, it's been 4 years already. What happened back there? Well it's a secret, I won't tell you readers more than that haha

And at that time too I officially abandoned my single-status, after 18 years. Don't blame me, I wasn't a popular person. (Until now I guess, duh!)

So it's already the 4th year, and I think it is not a really long time enough to be boasted. It flew so fast I think, and lots have happened of course.

Many sweet, bitter, painful, wonderful memories have passed. If you asked me am I happy with my relationship, then maybe I should say yes at that. But there is no perfect couple, there is no ideal relationship. At some point there always will be fights.

So did we fight a lot? Well yes of course! I don't know if it's the long distance problem or not, but maybe it's a necessary thing in a relationship. But just don't add too many fight, pretty please?

But considering many things happened, maybe I should say that my relationship made me a better person, thanks dear. I think that's important too. I dunno what will happened to me if you rejected my offer, but I guess I won't be a better person like now :)

Well... I hope things will be going smoothly from now on. Thanks for everything in the past year dear, really. Let's work our best again towards another year, and another again, and again.

So for everyone out there, who have a relationship, especially long distance one; maybe I should say this. And yes, I didn't take this one outta nowhere okay.

Relationship is like a plant. 
There will always a time when you and your couple forget to take care of it, or maybe don't have time for it.
There will always a time when the weather goes bad. The sun, rain, storms, and the others.
There will always a time when it is almost withered.
It will go die...when it's too late. 
When there is no hope again. 
When there is no one hoping it will get better. 
When there is no one taking actions to make it better. 
So...it always depends on you two. Whether it will bloom into a beautiful flower, or just become a cactus that its thorn will hurt you...it's up to you.

Good luck then, and wish me luck too!