Deep in loneliness
Wow, look at the title -- So deep, so heavy... But what about the contents?
Actually this is just my thought. Dunno maybe other people out there feel the same as I am, or not, but don't take this as a heavy-reading, just enjoy it haha
Ehm where must I start... Well, actually I have these thought; maybe being the latest child in a family isn't the best one, like some people said. Many thinks that the latest child get the most care from his/her parent, because (maybe) that child is the most expected one. Like example... A mom just gave a birth; a male baby. Usually, the next baby will be expected to be the female one, coz most people wanted to have both gender for their children, right? But what if the next one was a male baby again? Maybe she will try it again and again until she gets the female one, and then stopped. That's the latest child, perhaps. That's why some latest child is the one who hold the 'hope' from his/her parent.
Many said that first child is going to be neglected as soon as the next child is born. And again, the latest child gonna get the most care, coz she/he is the youngest one. Then the first child -- the oldest one, gonna have to help his/her parent to take care of his young sis/bro. This one must be 90% correct.
But let's think about it.
Doesn't it only happened when they were young, like in a elementary school? What if the children already get bigger and older?
The first/oldest child gonna get married first -- of course, and then he/she gonna go away from his/her parent, making a new family on his/her own. Well, maybe not going to far -- but still, he/she going to live separated from his/her parent right?
Then how about the youngest child? He/she lost the old sis/bro, the one who took care about him/her. Not 100% lost though, but still -- there will be a wall stand between them.
The parent gonna give their newlyweds child the most care, maybe what must to do, what must not to do, AND most especially, when their child give them a grandchild.
Which parent in this world that is not happy when they become a grandparent? They feel so happy coz like their job as parent are finally done -- something like that achievement unlocked in the xbox i think.
At this time, the youngest child is going to be neglected, coz his/her parent are busy taking care of their newborn grandchild.
He/she will feel lonely, especially he/she is a college student that live far away from his/her parent.
Just my thought anyway, maybe most people don't think the same, but I actually kinda felt this way, just kinda. Perhaps I was being too melancholy.
The important thing is, I really miss that time, when I was child, playing with my bro and sis together -- Those were really....unforgettable memories.
I am not saying that it was bad to be the youngest child (well, I am already lucky enough to have a great family anyway), but if you are the youngest child... Then maybe you should really appreciate that moment -- when you were playing together with your bro/sis. Why? Coz you are the one who gonna feel the most lost when they're going away.
Well, that's just my random thought anyway, don't take it too much. Just like old one said; just live your life to the fullest :P
Actually this is just my thought. Dunno maybe other people out there feel the same as I am, or not, but don't take this as a heavy-reading, just enjoy it haha
Ehm where must I start... Well, actually I have these thought; maybe being the latest child in a family isn't the best one, like some people said. Many thinks that the latest child get the most care from his/her parent, because (maybe) that child is the most expected one. Like example... A mom just gave a birth; a male baby. Usually, the next baby will be expected to be the female one, coz most people wanted to have both gender for their children, right? But what if the next one was a male baby again? Maybe she will try it again and again until she gets the female one, and then stopped. That's the latest child, perhaps. That's why some latest child is the one who hold the 'hope' from his/her parent.
Many said that first child is going to be neglected as soon as the next child is born. And again, the latest child gonna get the most care, coz she/he is the youngest one. Then the first child -- the oldest one, gonna have to help his/her parent to take care of his young sis/bro. This one must be 90% correct.
But let's think about it.
Doesn't it only happened when they were young, like in a elementary school? What if the children already get bigger and older?
The first/oldest child gonna get married first -- of course, and then he/she gonna go away from his/her parent, making a new family on his/her own. Well, maybe not going to far -- but still, he/she going to live separated from his/her parent right?
Then how about the youngest child? He/she lost the old sis/bro, the one who took care about him/her. Not 100% lost though, but still -- there will be a wall stand between them.
The parent gonna give their newlyweds child the most care, maybe what must to do, what must not to do, AND most especially, when their child give them a grandchild.
Which parent in this world that is not happy when they become a grandparent? They feel so happy coz like their job as parent are finally done -- something like that achievement unlocked in the xbox i think.
At this time, the youngest child is going to be neglected, coz his/her parent are busy taking care of their newborn grandchild.
He/she will feel lonely, especially he/she is a college student that live far away from his/her parent.
Just my thought anyway, maybe most people don't think the same, but I actually kinda felt this way, just kinda. Perhaps I was being too melancholy.
The important thing is, I really miss that time, when I was child, playing with my bro and sis together -- Those were really....unforgettable memories.
I am not saying that it was bad to be the youngest child (well, I am already lucky enough to have a great family anyway), but if you are the youngest child... Then maybe you should really appreciate that moment -- when you were playing together with your bro/sis. Why? Coz you are the one who gonna feel the most lost when they're going away.
Well, that's just my random thought anyway, don't take it too much. Just like old one said; just live your life to the fullest :P